My roommate went home yesterday.
Last night,I stayed in the renting-house alone,feeling lonely and a little scared.The cold wind went into cracks of the window,I couldn’t help shivering.I turned on the computer,and took a deep breath.Although the daylong work have made me tired and dizzy,I have to find something to do.So I played with The.Sword.of II for a while,and then began to watching Friends.Only in this way and keep myself in the noisy and comedic enviroment,can I feel some smooth and steady.
Frankly speaking,I’m not a gloomy person,everybody around me knows that I am a outgoing and lively girl.Though sometimes I am a little timid.But in that peaceful and quiet night,I just feel longly and miss my parents and dear friends strongly.
I wish the New Year’s day come on quickly,and I can go home to enjoy the warm and fragrant.I also wish my every friends who stay around me or not around me can live well and have a happy day.I miss them,just like they miss me too.
I will cherish the good-fellowship forever,and I believe it will give me courage and power.I am not alone!
I saw an article in the http://www.kekenet.com/ just now…I think it is very useful for those who has made plans but didn’t know how stick to it…
Along the way, and especially since I started my resolutions-based happiness project, I’ve hit on some strategies for helping myself stick to resolutions.
1. Be specific. Don’t resolve to “Make more friends” or “Strengthen friendships”; that’s too vague. To make more friends as part of my happiness project, I have several very concrete resolutions like: “Start a group,” “Remember birthdays,” “Say hello,” “Make plans,” “Show up,” and “No gossip.”
2. Write it down.
3. Review your resolution constantly. If your resolution is buzzing through your head, it’s easier to stick to it. I review my Resolutions Chart every night.
4. Hold yourself accountable. Tell other people about your resolution, join or form a like-minded group, score yourself on a chart (my method) — whatever works for you to make yourself feel accountable for success and failure.
5. Think big. Maybe you need a big change, a big adventure – a trip to a foreign place, a break-up, a move, a new job. Let yourself imagine anything, and plan from there.
6. Think small. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that only radical change can make a difference. Just keeping your fridge cleared out could give you a real boost. Look close to home for ways to improve and grow.
7. Ask for help. Why is this so hard? But every time I ask for help, I’m amazed at how much easier my task becomes.
If you have an especially tough time keeping resolutions, if you have a pattern of making and breaking them, try these strategies:
8. Consider making only pleasant resolutions. We can make our lives happier in many ways. If you’ve been trying the boot-camp approach with no success, try resolving to “Go to more movies,” “Entertain more often,” or whatever resolutions you’d find fun to keep. Often, having more fun in our lives makes it easier to do tough things. Seeing more movies might make it easier to keep going to the gym.
9. Consider giving up a resolution. If you keep making and breaking a resolution, consider whether you should relinquish it entirely. Put your energy toward changes that are both realistic and helpful. Don’t let an unfulfilled resolution to lose twenty pounds or to overhaul your overgrown yard block you from making other, smaller resolutions that might give you a big happiness boost.
10. Keep your resolution every day. Weirdly, it’s often easier to do something every day (exercise, post to a blog, deal with the mail, do laundry) than every few days.
11. Set a deadline.
12. Don’t give up if something interferes with your deadline.
13. “Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.” Thank you, Voltaire. Instead of starting your new exercise routine by training for the marathon, aim for a 20-minute walk each day. Instead of cleaning out the attic, tackle one bureau drawer. If you break your resolution today, try again tomorrow.“
What else? What are some strategies you’ve discovered, to help you stick to your New Year’s resolutions?
These days,the festival atmosphere has become stronger and stronger.Some are doing New year’s shopping:candys、fruits、new clothes、hansels and so on.some celebrate their promotion in work or excellent grades in study.some feel very happy for their much year-end bonus.some are depressed for their bad luck.some are also worried about that how to have a great future under the economic crisis….
These days,everyday work looks a little easy and slack.Everymorning,I come to the company,turn on the computer, sign in QQ,browse the news and new blogs…then a day has over.
When my colleagues told me that year-end bonus had sent,I couldn’t wait to check it.The result is satisfied,even the sum beyond my expectation.But I don’t feel very happy,beacuse the money doesn’t belong to me.I must hand to my parents.
I don’t know what to say,just feel a little lose.I don’t know how to face the pressure from my parents.I don’t konw there are so many responsibility to take after graduation.I don’t konw what’s meant to be of the future…
I don’t know…No theme…Sorry,It’s my rambling…
After greeting my parents by phone;After having a supper with my uncle and his family;After sending messages to all my friends;After ……
I wandered aimlessly at the crowded street,with deafening firecrakers echoed in every corner of this city.My brain had a blank and feeled nothing.I didn’t know what to say,to whom to express,for what purpose…I liked a ghost of the city,floating in the sky with no destination.
I came back my renting room,turned on computer,faced at the colorful computer desktop.Suddenly I felt there was some wet things in my eyes,I realized they were production of “loneliness” and “fragility”.I think I had been strong enough,actually I don’t,I don’t do it,even I can’t do it well.
weary…restless…I hate festival,hate every longly festival.I want to be strong and independent.But how should I do.who can tell me?
OMG…God bless me!
Last night,I came to Casa-Lingua to take my first class of oral english.Everything was so familiar to me,and everyone was so kind and friendly,even i feeled i had came back home,comfortable and warm.
Tom was a new teacher,and this was his second time to teach here.When i first saw him,i was impressed by his smiling face.He likes smile very much.Everytime i stuttered my opoint,or tensely didn’t know what to say,even couldn’t use proper words to answer his question…He alawys keeps smile to me,as if tells me that,Don’t fear,be confident,say out bravely!His skilled and patient affected everyone of us,and made us talk freely and happily.
Firstly,we introduced ourselves separately,including our names,universities,works and hobbies.Actually,this was not my first time to introduce myself,but i also feeled a little nervous. it’s interesting that many of us work at IT industry,and with a smile Tom said that we are a IT family.
Then, we talked about the topic of “hunting job” and “chinese educational system”.With regard to the “hunting job”,we were unavoidable associate with the current Globle Financial Crisis.So many college graduate couldn’t find a satisfying job,they hovered,wandered,and eventually lost their direction of future.But I think that everyone should takes his fate into his own hand,and shoudn’t complain and be discouraged.Even the first job is not so good,we should accept it,rather than waiting all the time.In this difficult time,college students should take the self-help action,keep down the starting-point.I always believe that:”All glitters is good”!
As for the “chinese educational system”,we expressed the same idea: we think our educational system exists many defect and limitation.Tom also considered that we chinese students had a common character:Lack of focus and ambition.And the stituation will appear more and more clearer as we come to the university.Every chinese student who take the university entrance examination will go through a long suffering and painful time.But if they are admitted to the university,they will relax themselves,and don’t study hard liky high school.Even many students can’t graduate successfully cause they don’t have enough credits.
As a whole,I think the English-thinking style is more important than the English-learning itself.I must think over and over,and be a person of all-around ability.
These days,by the impact of constant rain,i ofhen feel lost and helpless.
Last night,i sent a message to sb,but he didn’t reply.Originally,it was a very small thing,and we got along harmonious before a long perious of time.But,the key was that time i stuck in bad mood,and his dumbness made me worse.I also chose silence.I said to myself——it’s not big deal,so common,i don’t care!
Actually,these days my life is very calm and warm.Although i don’t have much money,i still install the broadband.In this way,i can see movies or write blogs or learn english or do something else i like in the internet.But last night,the calm of my heart was interrupted by that message which wasn’t responded.
Frankly speaking,it seems not so bad to me.Just as a saying goes,let gonebys be gonebys.Those painful memories alawys constantly harass me,and make me crazy and sad.I have been striving to break away,but i failed.so sadness,so gloomy……
I believe that time will dilute everyting,espeacially something or somthbody you hate deeply.I believe……wish the weather clear as soon as possible,and also wish me have a good mood as soon as possible.
A wolf that hoots and wants to eat goats but never eats off always & a group of goats that conquer the threat by wisdom always and are very lucky – the cartoon “Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf” seems talking about a simple but a bit boring story, but it is quickly popular between the children and the young white-collar workers. The audiences from the white-collar workers almost exceed the ones from the children, and even some issued a slogan – I would like to marry Big Big Wolf. Why are so lots of the white-collar workers particularly for the female to keen for this cartoon which is originally produced for the children.
In the play, Big Big Wolf is a typical hen-pecked husband. Its wife “Red Wolf” is an ill-humored war horse who is dressing up herself beautifully as “Queen” everyday and is very harsh to its husband. Big Big Wolf is a typical Shanghai man and Red Wolf is a typical Shanghai woman. Someone summarizes 10 virtues for Big Big Wolf: love its wife better than itself, love laboring, smart & perseverance, be good at working by hands, never feel distressed in the money spent for its wife, single and wholehearted to its wife, never own the case-dough, be good at cooking, please to its wife”.
A so interesting play.Would you like to marry big big wolf?What’s your opinion?
I joined the elanso(translation community) for about two weeks.During this time,i visited the website everyday,and browsed the articles which tanslated by excellant translators.I was so envious of their talent,and determined to become the person like them.I also tried my best to translate some articles,part of them come from the English learning websites,another part of them come from the website’s article store.
At the beginning,after translating each article,i didn’t want to check out any more.Comparing those master-hand,i felt very self-absed.Frankly speaking,I didn’t dare to image how embarrassed i am when someone criticized me strongly,but i was so earnest to welcome people to pick out my errors and shortcomings in my articles.The fact was that my message board was under the blank all the time.I was so lost.
The bad condition didn’t last a long time,as my works more and more,the condition became to turn good.When i saw the first message,i cound’t help to thank the godness,I was so happy and exciting.Actually,as a outstanding perso,they are very kind and warm-hearted,they especially regard the character diligence and humility.
Today,it’s amazing that i was upgraded by elanso.I felt so encouraged and pride.I know there is a long way to go,and my skill needs to greater improve.So i write down my mood now,wish my great progress next time.
Today is International women’s day.I stay at home lonely.
No telephone calls,no messages,no appointments,no gifts…
Actually today is a sunny day,and the temperature is also really suitable for walking out.But when i woke up in the morning,found nobody date me,i felt so lost.
I remembered the time of upcoming graduation,my several good friends who would stay in this city had promised that we would been together as long as in festival.But as time flies,everybody around me has changed a lot in less than a year.I was so miss the time we were in university.That time we seem to be together anywhere and anytime.We go to class together,go to canteen together,go shopping together,even have a date together.That was a so exciting and happy time.
But now,everyone has his own life.Somebody falls in love,somebody is busy with his work,somebody is struggling to a better life.Everyone of us has less and less time together,even some of us in the same city.everyone has his own arrangment but you.
I watched some movies,writed some aricles,sent some messages,and stared some blanks——This makes up my boring day.
I took half an hour to translate this article,tired but excited.I have to say that the article itself is really excellent and edificatory,so i commend it to you guys,wish you like!
I shouldn’t let the Youth attach the earth
By Yueran Zhang
As “after 80s generation”,when we begin to be sensible,we see the world is full of new and fresh,an eyes of goodies,more to find than can ever be found.We weather through our disconsolate childhood in company of Japan cartoon and HongKong teleplay.The westen pop music like the rigid vehicle acompany us to go to school and after school.The KFC and Mcdonald’s become our best reward.At that moment,all goods are imported,which stand for a kind of quality assurance,and the sworn determination of drawing a clear line with elder generation’s outdated and antiquated life.
“after 80s generation” have strong personality,and many of them appear to disdain to the 70s generation who live in a colony life-style.However,what’s the personality about?The after 80s generation listen the Music Vidoes of Rock&Roll,read the novels by CunshangChunshu(CC) and Duras,and then grow up day by day.They pay attention to absorb the fresh things in read,music,movie,and other aspect.The initial literature creating of “after 80s generation” are flooded by a variety of foreign brands,bands,and director’s names.
They also find a kind of emotion——beat,lonely,dispirited and bored emotion.This emotion become our excuse of making no effort to seek progress,rather than the spiritual strength.Do we find the personality from it?Yes,the percipient substitude the creative in our whole Youthhood,so that make a prosperous pink elephants.
The after 80s generation often follow like sheep,and they are easily to fall into the fanatic and excited condition.When “after 80s generation” stem the torrent of Carrefour to express critical of France,many of my MSN friends add one heart and “China” in front of their name one after another.The rising emotion is horrible.Actually,this kind of patriotic feelings can’t bear to weith at all.
I’m always afraid that whether we will feel ashamed by the memory of youth when we recall the past.All of the passion are short of foundation and spirit strength,just like a famous-brand review picture album which exhibits fashion and custom year by year.I have two friends born in the 70s,they are classmates in their university,and they are still best friends today.Although they seem to so different each other,and their character,hobbies and living condition are also not the same.It’s ideality that connect them.They want to contribute to several Project Hope primary school,and they aslo plan to contribute to establish a library by combining their collections of books.So they strive to earn money,and are at pains to collect all kinds of books.Maybe “after 80s generation” can’t understand their friendship,and think that ideality are far from them.No wonder,one of my 70s friends has doubted our friendship of my generation,it seems that we are so superficial,and we are together just for companion,beer and skittles.I was so guilty to retort.The fact is that we are just like it.
When I grow up,my greatest wish is to discharge the stress of much more responsibility.I don’t know how much I can afford.
Maybe our freedom have been overhead,and have not the root system to attach the earth.Are we right,or wrong?
